[已解决问题] 英国索尔安东尼的一篇散文，请各路高手帮忙找一下原文好吗？？
人的一生会遇上的四个人 ----- （英）索尔安东尼
人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。第一个是自己，第二个是你最爱的人，第三个是最爱你的人，第四个是共度一生的人。
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉，因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人。当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什麽是你最需要的，也才会找到最适合你、能够相处一辈子的人。但悲哀的是，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；你最爱的，往往没有选择你；最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最合适的时间出现的那个人。你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；同样地，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你。当一个人不爱你要离开你，你要问自己还爱不爱他，如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开。如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福, 就表示你已经不爱他了。
而如果你不爱他，你又有什麽资格指责他变心呢？爱不是占有，你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，让爱人成为生命力的永恒回忆。如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子，爱他的好，也爱他的坏，爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，万一变不成就不爱他了。真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪着你；真正的感情是两个人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得。分开是一种必然的考验，如果你们感情不够巩固，只好认输，真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候，最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺。我们为什麽要对方发誓，就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱！明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；就算会，也活不到那时候。许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，最好是承诺作不到的事，反正作不到的，随便说说也不要紧，请记住：“不可能实现的诺言最动人。”在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套，讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第几个?茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。第一个是自己，第二个是你最爱的人，第三个是最爱你的人，第四个是共度一生的人。
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉，因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人。当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什麽是你最需要的，也才会找到最适合你、能够相处一辈子的人。但悲哀的是，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；你最爱的，往往没有选择你；最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最合适的时间出现的那个人。你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；同样地，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你。当一个人不爱你要离开你，你要问自己还爱不爱他，如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开。如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福, 就表示你已经不爱他了。
而如果你不爱他，你又有什麽资格指责他变心呢？爱不是占有，你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，让爱人成为生命力的永恒回忆。如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子，爱他的好，也爱他的坏，爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，万一变不成就不爱他了。真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪着你；真正的感情是两个人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得。分开是一种必然的考验，如果你们感情不够巩固，只好认输，真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候，最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺。我们为什麽要对方发誓，就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱！明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；就算会，也活不到那时候。许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，最好是承诺作不到的事，反正作不到的，随便说说也不要紧，请记住：“不可能实现的诺言最动人。”在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套，讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第几个?茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
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Four kinds of persons that you will meet in your life
Life is a process of pursuit of love, all of us will find four persons in our lengthy yet short life.
The first one is yourself.
The second is the one you belove
The third is the one that beloves you
The forth is the one that share the whole life with you.
Firstly, you will meet the one you like most and then understand the feeling of love.
Because of experiecing the feeling of being loved, you will find the one loves you most.
When you go through the loving and being loved and then you will unknowingly learn how to love and eventually know what you need most.
At last you will find the fittest one sharing the your life for ever..
But the sadness is that, in reality, the three persons can’t become one being.
The one you love , sometimes, never thinks to choose you.
The one that loves you, sometimes ,is not your favourite.
While the one always accompanies with you is not both of them.
It is the one who only appears at the fittest time in your life.
And for you , which one will you become appearing in other’s life?
No one willl changes his love intendedly.
When he fell in love river with you , he truly sacrificed himself for you in earnest.
When he lose the love of you, he also truly departed himself from you in earnest.
He can’t pretend himself not loving you when his heart is haunted by your image.
Equally , he can’t pretend himself loving you when the happiness has been erased in his heart.
When the one not loving you like before goes away ,
You ask yourself whether you still love him,
If you don’t love him, never coil him for the pitiful self-esteem.
If you still love him, wish he has a life as happy as you have.
Wish that he can live with the one he loves loyally without any hinderance.
Love is not kind of occupation.
You like the moon but you can’t pick it down to the basin.
But the moonlit can spill into your room every night.
In another words, love can be got in another way and you should store the loved as the forever memmory in your life.
If you really love one, you should love him as what he is.
Love his good, love his bad, love his merit and love his dismerit .
You should never hope he becomes what you like just because you love him and donot love him in case he cannot change.
You cannot tell the reaaon why you love one if you really do.
You only know that wherever you are, happy or sad, you want him to be with you.
You two can keep the love in the worst living condition and demand nothing.
After all, love needs dedication but not just gaining.
To part is an inevitabale test.
If the love between you is not steady, you have to give up,
When in love river, each likes other to make an oath.
Why should you? cause you don't trust each other.
"Seas may run dry, rocks turn to dust, may but my ove to you will never be changed"
We all know seas will never run dry, rocks never crumble.
Eventhough they will, we cannot live so long.
Unrrealistic as these oath words are, they are most touching .
Because true love is never to turn into a grudge.
来小Q的第一个回答，呵呵
提问者对于答案的评价：不错，太感谢啦！！其他的也不错啊！！不过飞行胜利者是第一个来的！！所以。。。呵呵，就是他/她啦！！
Four kinds of persons that you will meet in your life
Life is a process of pursuit of love, all of us will find four persons in our lengthy yet short life.
The first one is yourself.
The second is the one you belove
The third is the one that beloves you
The forth is the one that share the whole life with you.
Firstly, you will meet the one you like most and then understand the feeling of love.
Because of experiecing the feeling of being loved, you will find the one loves you most.
When you go through the loving and being loved and then you will unknowingly learn how to love and eventually know what you need most.
At last you will find the fittest one sharing the your life for ever..
But the sadness is that, in reality, the three persons can’t become one being.
The one you love , sometimes, never thinks to choose you.
The one that loves you, sometimes ,is not your favourite.
While the one always accompanies with you is not both of them.
It is the one who only appears at the fittest time in your life.
And for you , which one will you become appearing in other’s life?
No one willl changes his love intendedly.
When he fell in love river with you , he truly sacrificed himself for you in earnest.
When he lose the love of you, he also truly departed himself from you in earnest.
He can’t pretend himself not loving you when his heart is haunted by your image.
Equally , he can’t pretend himself loving you when the happiness has been erased in his heart.
When the one not loving you like before goes away ,
You ask yourself whether you still love him,
If you don’t love him, never coil him for the pitiful self-esteem.
If you still love him, wish he has a life as happy as you have.
Wish that he can live with the one he loves loyally without any hinderance.
Love is not kind of occupation.
You like the moon but you can’t pick it down to the basin.
But the moonlit can spill into your room every night.
In another words, love can be got in another way and you should store the loved as the forever memmory in your life.
If you really love one, you should love him as what he is.
Love his good, love his bad, love his merit and love his dismerit .
You should never hope he becomes what you like just because you love him and donot love him in case he cannot change.
You cannot tell the reaaon why you love one if you really do.
You only know that wherever you are, happy or sad, you want him to be with you.
You two can keep the love in the worst living condition and demand nothing.
After all, love needs dedication but not just gaining.
To part is an inevitabale test.
If the love between you is not steady, you have to give up,
When in love river, each likes other to make an oath.
Why should you? cause you don't trust each other.
"Seas may run dry, rocks turn to dust, may but my ove to you will never be changed"
We all know seas will never run dry, rocks never crumble.
Eventhough they will, we cannot live so long.
Unrrealistic as these oath words are, they are most touching .
Because true love is never to turn into a grudge.
来小Q的第一个回答，呵呵
2007-12-11 9:16:54
回答者：flyingwinner
提问者对于答案的评价：不错，太感谢啦！！其他的也不错啊！！不过飞行胜利者是第一个来的！！所以。。。呵呵，就是他/她啦！！
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找不到，找牛人翻译吧。 The four people you will meet in your life Every body, in the journey of his or her life, will meet four people The first one is yourself The second the one you love most The third the one who loves you most The last is the one with whom you will walk togther in the journey of life Firstly, you will meet the one you love most and experience the feeling of true love For you have known the feeling the of being loved, you can find who loves you most After you experiened loving and being loved and know what is love, then you get to know what is your need And then you can find the one who matches you and can live peaceful with you all through your life However, what is sad is that in the realistic life the three are usually not the same one the most loved always do not love you The one who loves you most is always not loved by you And the last one, with you always in your life, is not the most loved and not the one who loves you most It is only the one who appears at the most appropriate time She or he does not intend to be disloyal When he or she loves you, it is true When he dose not love you, it is also true When he loves you, he can not prtend to love you Meanwhile, when he does not love you, he cannot pretend not to love you When one begins not loving you and leaves you, you ask yourself wheather you love him at all When you begin not loving him, do never stay with him just for your self-respect If you love him, you should and will hope he may have a good and happy life You hope he can be with whom he loves and will never stand in the way If you do, this means that you donot love him already And if you do not love him, then why should you blame him being disloyal Love is not to take up You may love the moon, but it is impossibe to put it into your basin; however the moonlight can come into your room In another words, love can be got in another way and you should store the loved as the forever memmory in your life If you really love one, you should love him as what he is Love his good, love his bad, love his merit and love his dismerit You should never hope he becomes what you like just because you love him and donot love him in case he cannot change You cannot tell the reaaon why you love one if you really do You only know that wherever you are, happy or sad, you want him to be with you You two can keep the love in the worst living condition and demand nothing After all, love needs dedication but not just gaining To part is an inevitabale test If the love between you is not steady, you have to give up, When in love river, each likes other to make an oath Why should you? ‘cause you donot trust each other “Seas may run dry, rocks turn to dust, may but my ove to you will never be changed” We all know seas will never run dry, rocks never crumble Eventhough they will, we cannot live so long Unrrealistic as these oath words are, they are most touching Because true love is never to turn into a grudge 最后修改于 2007-12-11 9:27:20
我觉得就是nicole提供的这个。。。呵呵，真是不错的文章呀。 The four people you will meet in your life Every body, in the journey of his or her life, will meet four people The first one is yourself The second the one you love most The third the one who loves you most The last is the one with whom you will walk togther in the journey of life Firstly, you will meet the one you love most and experience the feeling of true love For you have known the feeling the of being loved, you can find who loves you most After you experiened loving and being loved and know what is love, then you get to know what is your need And then you can find the one who matches you and can live peaceful with you all through your life However, what is sad is that in the realistic life the three are usually not the same one the most loved always do not love you The one who loves you most is always not loved by you And the last one, with you always in your life, is not the most loved and not the one who loves you most It is only the one who appears at the most appropriate time She or he does not intend to be disloyal When he or she loves you, it is true When he dose not love you, it is also true When he loves you, he can not prtend to love you Meanwhile, when he does not love you, he cannot pretend not to love you When one begins not loving you and leaves you, you ask yourself wheather you love him at all When you begin not loving him, do never stay with him just for your self-respect If you love him, you should and will hope he may have a good and happy life You hope he can be with whom he loves and will never stand in the way If you do, this means that you donot love him already And if you do not love him, then why should you blame him being disloyal Love is not to take up You may love the moon, but it is impossibe to put it into your basin; however the moonlight can come into your room In another words, love can be got in another way and you should store the loved as the forever memmory in your life If you really love one, you should love him as what he is Love his good, love his bad, love his merit and love his dismerit You should never hope he becomes what you like just because you love him and donot love him in case he cannot change You cannot tell the reaaon why you love one if you really do You only know that wherever you are, happy or sad, you want him to be with you You two can keep the love in the worst living condition and demand nothing After all, love needs dedication but not just gaining To part is an inevitabale test If the love between you is not steady, you have to give up, When in love river, each likes other to make an oath Why should you? ‘cause you donot trust each other “Seas may run dry, rocks turn to dust, may but my ove to you will never be changed” We all know seas will never run dry, rocks never crumble Eventhough they will, we cannot live so long Unrrealistic as these oath words are, they are most touching Because true love is never to turn into a grudge 这个经典名篇值得模仿背诵。 最后修改于 2007-12-11 10:52:22
这片散文真的很经典！说的也很有道理！ |
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